Psycho Trip

With my new view on life and how women operate, I set out to build up my personality to the specifics that I had been learning. I effectively found my purpose in life, I grew, and continue to grow, a list of female friends that I find attractive but would never do anything with, and my behavior towards women has changed. With my new changes, women find me attractive all the time and its easy to talk to strangers now. Along with my paradigm shift came a new view on life. I decided that to get the most out of my new found confidence I would need a mind set that maintained that fantastic level of confidence that I was growing accustomed to.

With some ideas roaming about in my head, I found a mind set that worked the best for me. Its simply put, “All women want me.” With this mindset I was able to maintain my cool, calm, collected state of emotions while turning up the confidence level. I have it held firm that all women want me and it doesn’t matter what they say, this mind set will remain firm. To clarify, it isn’t that all women want me for a sexual partner or otherwise, its just that every women I come across is attracted to me and there’s nothing they can do about it.

With my new shift in paradigm and the new lease on life I was able to act myself now. I still have that reserved nice guy inside me that is afraid to offend people but he’s slowly backing down from the driver’s seat. I can now act this way and it comes naturally, so I am in fact acting like myself. All of these thought processes have led me to become more congruent in my behaviors.

An interesting fact of all of this changing is a respect that I had never previously felt. When I talk, people listen to me, when I offer an opinion, it is taken into consideration. With the rapid changes that came to me, a new respect of me from others came with it. My truly confident nature has taken over me and I am able to stand tall against adversity and challenges. It’s a true breath of fresh air and I get a glint eyed look from my mother when she talks about how proud she is about the changes that have taken place inside me. I now know my path in life and I don’t allow anyone to make me stray from it.

Along with respect from others, I also enjoy my life in all ways now. Its most likely credited to looking at the bright side of everything and following my heart to do what I truly want to do. I enjoy talking to everyone and I do my best to be an interesting person to talk to. You cant please everyone all the time, so those people that aren’t happy with me are told to just deal with it. If they don’t like how I am then I tell them to take that attitude elsewhere. Its liberating to be able to stand firm on my beliefs and tell other people that I wont change for them.

Something that I hadn’t thought about that came with my changes was the fact that I view everything in life with an altered, critical eye. I like to look for the deeper meaning of what is being said and what actions are being taken. Its enlightening to see that surface level intent isn’t the true nature of actions, in most cases. There’s a deeper motive to every action that comes from people because in one way or another they are behaving in a way that is moving them closer to a goal in their life that they may not be sharing with others. I always like to look at what is going on to see if there is a deeper meaning behind what is going on.