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February 21, 2005 at 12:00 AM
I have been reading different stories, from the actors/etc. movies original and other categories, and this is the first one that I have replied too. I\'m not sure why I chose to read it, probably because I can relate to the \"no such thing as magic\" going on the first time.
the first time it even came close to happening, the guy was so drunk he couldn\'t do much of anything (alcohol supposedly inhibits a man\'s arousal and with what he consumed, i\'m not surprised) so after a lot of fumbling around with clothes (although he knew how to get mine off pretty fast and i\'m a quick learner myself) it ended with him sleeping next to me while i bit my lip to try and stop myself from shouting at him to finish what he started... glad to get rid of that one in the sexual sense. although he was a good thing to fool around with on the foreplay front... passed some boring hours with him quite nicely.
The first guy I wanted to tear the clothes off happened to be sitting in his truck with me in my driveway and i realized that if my parents looked out their window (they *WERE* probably asleep, but still...) they\'d see everything, so i recoiled and the dumbshit said something that I took offense to (although i know he meant it in a \"damn that was good\" way) so i got out of there still fully clothed. If he hadn\'t said the wrong thing, we woulda driven somewhere and he\'d be a happy man today... poor guy, hell... poor me...
after that, well... they have been a lot better but still... the worst thing about the first time is not knowing what to do. there is that \"am i doing this right?\" floating around... I had to chuckle at your story, just because of my own experiences... thought you might enjoy a laugh at another person\'s pathetic first time. :-)
the first time it even came close to happening, the guy was so drunk he couldn\'t do much of anything (alcohol supposedly inhibits a man\'s arousal and with what he consumed, i\'m not surprised) so after a lot of fumbling around with clothes (although he knew how to get mine off pretty fast and i\'m a quick learner myself) it ended with him sleeping next to me while i bit my lip to try and stop myself from shouting at him to finish what he started... glad to get rid of that one in the sexual sense. although he was a good thing to fool around with on the foreplay front... passed some boring hours with him quite nicely.
The first guy I wanted to tear the clothes off happened to be sitting in his truck with me in my driveway and i realized that if my parents looked out their window (they *WERE* probably asleep, but still...) they\'d see everything, so i recoiled and the dumbshit said something that I took offense to (although i know he meant it in a \"damn that was good\" way) so i got out of there still fully clothed. If he hadn\'t said the wrong thing, we woulda driven somewhere and he\'d be a happy man today... poor guy, hell... poor me...
after that, well... they have been a lot better but still... the worst thing about the first time is not knowing what to do. there is that \"am i doing this right?\" floating around... I had to chuckle at your story, just because of my own experiences... thought you might enjoy a laugh at another person\'s pathetic first time. :-)
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February 10, 2005 at 12:00 AM
My experience was similar. The big \'V\' was something I had wanted to get rid of but I had the expectations that it was going to be some great thing for me. I was so disappointed. He plowed in and kept right on going for about 10 minutes then it was over. I lay there thinking \'was that it? Who the hell wants to do that?\'
If I\'m ever asked for advice on the subject I will tell them to wait. I threw something precious away and I believe that any man would truly cared about me would have taken more time and care. He would not have been so selfish and it would have been more enjoyable.
Keep your chin up though. I finally found someone great, we waited till it was right for both of us and the sex now is just what I imagined. My prince has arrived.
If I\'m ever asked for advice on the subject I will tell them to wait. I threw something precious away and I believe that any man would truly cared about me would have taken more time and care. He would not have been so selfish and it would have been more enjoyable.
Keep your chin up though. I finally found someone great, we waited till it was right for both of us and the sex now is just what I imagined. My prince has arrived.
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February 9, 2005 at 12:00 AM
That sounds like the most realistic \"first time\" story I\'ve heard for awhile... Honestly, I can relate to Sydney; I\'m in my second year of college and am still a virgin. In fact, I haven\'t even been kissed or had a date... pathetic, I know. But if the opportunity ever presents itself for something to happen, I will undoubtedly remember this story, and consequently have more than enough willpower to decline any and all advances. Thanks for being so forthright about reality; if more stories like this were around, perhaps there would be less heartbreak from girls expecting Harlequin romance from inept young men...
Your writing shows talent; keep up the good work. And may I say that I sincerely hope, for your sake, that this story wasn\'t written from personal experience...
Your writing shows talent; keep up the good work. And may I say that I sincerely hope, for your sake, that this story wasn\'t written from personal experience...
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February 9, 2005 at 12:00 AM
LOL oooo man, dis is a funny story. da way u discribe stuff. i tink i kinda get ur idea. i betta watch out on myn den. kip writin things. pretty cool
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January 28, 2005 at 12:00 AM
Well just because YOUR first time was not *magic* doesn\'t necessarily mean others are the same as yours, that would be close-minded. My first time *was* magic and it was a night to remember ^o^ I cherish that night. Sorry yours suck, but mines and others I\'ve heard whose really lost their virginity had a great time. I\'m a newly wed and I saved my virginity for the man I truly love, I wouldn\'t go and just lay down with anyone... sorry but, I sleep with those I plan to stay with not just a quick sac in the bed. Anyways, your description and writing was quite nice... you were 17 when this happen? Wow... my friend was 14 when this happen to her... except she doesn\'t look her age... O.o you\'d swear she was the same age as her boyfriend, the age 18 or 19 but looks are deceiving. Anyways your story was an interesting read and it humored me.