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November 26, 2006 at 12:00 AM
Ah, this pretty much confirms my guess that losing your virginity hurts like hell the first time; then it's a big letdown.
I'v been rejected by every guy I have ever really liked anyway... *sigh*
Males; spawn of shit.
I'v been rejected by every guy I have ever really liked anyway... *sigh*
Males; spawn of shit.
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September 25, 2005 at 12:00 AM
i thought that was great. That is the reality for so many girls and you portrayed it perfectly. great job!
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July 10, 2005 at 12:00 AM
dammit, i can\'t stop thinking about this fic. ugh! is the first time really that bad?! god, i hope not! now i\'m kinda worried about what my first time will be like. and some of the reviews made sense; i now think i\'m losing interest in fluff fics *sigh*. hmmm, anyway, your story has inspired me to write about my first time (whenever that\'ll be) and have others know that it\'s not like how many movies, shows, fanfics, and so on picture it to be (you know, in case my first really does suck). anyway, great writing, and glad that this story wasn\'t autobiographical ;-) laters!
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May 31, 2005 at 12:00 AM
Haha. After reading some of those reviews, I feel like much less of a loser as a 16 year old virigin...jeez. I thought I was the only ones (and my weird friends of course...only one of us of which isn\'t actually a virgin and has had a steady boyfriend...). -I liked the story though, it adds humor to an otherwise taboo and thought provoking time of life.
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May 30, 2005 at 12:00 AM
\"Jack, this is Matt, Matt this is Jack...\" LMAO!
OMG. This was brilliant. :D And if this is your true story, I am sorry. *hugs* But I agree with everyone, it\'s great to see a hint of reality around here.
If I\'ve learned one thing from all this, it would be to find an intellegent guy with some notion of what he\'s doing who will NOT fight me for the bottom! lol. But congrats, you\'ve officially convinced me to wait till I\'m several years older, as none of the guys I know are that intellegent, heehee. Well, anyways, good job once again. And this story also reminds me why so many people come to this site- to escape reality and find a place where the first time rocks! lol.
hugs once again. :)
OMG. This was brilliant. :D And if this is your true story, I am sorry. *hugs* But I agree with everyone, it\'s great to see a hint of reality around here.
If I\'ve learned one thing from all this, it would be to find an intellegent guy with some notion of what he\'s doing who will NOT fight me for the bottom! lol. But congrats, you\'ve officially convinced me to wait till I\'m several years older, as none of the guys I know are that intellegent, heehee. Well, anyways, good job once again. And this story also reminds me why so many people come to this site- to escape reality and find a place where the first time rocks! lol.
hugs once again. :)
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May 30, 2005 at 12:00 AM
Virginity is such a bitch, isn\'t it?
My first time was hell too. And my second and third too, actually. What can I say? I was stupid and with a loser in those days. The older I get, the more I think knowledge is power. Boys need to learn what and where a \"clit\" is. Girls need to learn that the first time will not be \"magic\". I wish I had masturbated more before my first time; maybe if I had broken my own cherry, it would have saved me a lot of grief. And for years, I did not date anyone because I thought that I was simply a person who did not like sex. It was not until I learned how to masturbate properly that I even had an orgasm. Sad, but true.
While writing my own erotic fictions, I have discovered how hard it is to write a \"first time\" scene for my female characters. You want it to be sexy so that people will get off when they read it; but if it is too realistic, it is just traumatizing. I think that is why this myth of \"magic\" has gotten as prevalent as it has.
My advice to the reviewers who swear never to lose their virginity: don\'t be so afraid of the pain that you let it mess up your life. You can wait for years for the \"right guy\" to come along and it may never happen. Seriously, I had a friend once (no, it is not me!) who was a 35-year-old virgin. While that was obviously her choice, it is a shame because the pain of virginity only lasts a few times, but once you learn about your own body and how to get good orgasms, that lasts the rest of your life (with or without a partner)!
And my own latest discovery: If you can\'t find a guy who knows his way around a woman\'s body, there are some really wonderful vibrators out there!
My first time was hell too. And my second and third too, actually. What can I say? I was stupid and with a loser in those days. The older I get, the more I think knowledge is power. Boys need to learn what and where a \"clit\" is. Girls need to learn that the first time will not be \"magic\". I wish I had masturbated more before my first time; maybe if I had broken my own cherry, it would have saved me a lot of grief. And for years, I did not date anyone because I thought that I was simply a person who did not like sex. It was not until I learned how to masturbate properly that I even had an orgasm. Sad, but true.
While writing my own erotic fictions, I have discovered how hard it is to write a \"first time\" scene for my female characters. You want it to be sexy so that people will get off when they read it; but if it is too realistic, it is just traumatizing. I think that is why this myth of \"magic\" has gotten as prevalent as it has.
My advice to the reviewers who swear never to lose their virginity: don\'t be so afraid of the pain that you let it mess up your life. You can wait for years for the \"right guy\" to come along and it may never happen. Seriously, I had a friend once (no, it is not me!) who was a 35-year-old virgin. While that was obviously her choice, it is a shame because the pain of virginity only lasts a few times, but once you learn about your own body and how to get good orgasms, that lasts the rest of your life (with or without a partner)!
And my own latest discovery: If you can\'t find a guy who knows his way around a woman\'s body, there are some really wonderful vibrators out there!
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March 24, 2005 at 12:00 AM
Awesome! Reminds me of my frist time.. I had Sex with the same guy Numrous times and I didnt cum at all. Damned men, so incompentet. :) That has to be the best Fic i have ever readher. And Tehe first I am reviewing..
keep it up!
keep it up!
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March 23, 2005 at 12:00 AM
i just lost my viriginty on monday. it hurt like hell, but was so worth it though, but it could have been better. sorry that your waht that great. real am sorry.
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March 18, 2005 at 12:00 AM
That was great! I totally identified with that whole experience and I\'m really grateful there\'s a realistic depiction of a girl\'s first time on this feckin\' website
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March 17, 2005 at 12:00 AM
I really appreciate this piece. It always irritates me when people write first-time-sex as somethng wonderful. The first time I had sex was fucking agony, but I\'m happy to say that it\'s got better since then :) thank you for having the courage to write out about reality, rather than he popular fiction that everyone seems to believe.